When I was a small boy
at the zoo
This world seemed
fresh.
And yet
If someone told me
then
how lonely
life would grow.
What could I have done
(or changed)
to stop that fate?
(Hence
not finish up
as melancholic.
Black-clad
faded soul.
Like a goth in spirit.
Minus
style.)
Perhaps long illness shows us
who our true friends are?
With mine revealing
I had none.
Except
a loving uncle.
Close
until the end.
His photographs were left for me.
Preserving childhood days.
Those early sunlit trips
escaped oblivion
again.
To my surprise
he claimed I’d been
a source of fun and joy.
(Depression
arrived later.
Once art waned
I lost my way.)
His favourite picture
caught me unaware
a swan approached
behind.
Recently
I found an unseen image
of what happened next.
He’d made it known
the bird drew near.
So I turned back
delightedly.
Thus
these few shots
which now
survive
though blurred
or aged
might still display
their faint remains
of such
(forgotten)
happiness.
(This is my third
Birthday blog post.
🎂
After 30 years of spending them alone (and ill)
I often feel sadness, on the day.
It tends to emphasise continued isolation.
My uncle used to ring me.
But, since his death, the phone stays, mostly, silent.)
Hope everybody is well?
Do you like any of the photos?
Comments are always VERY welcome!
Thank you
for reading.
( art / blog / blogging / depression / goth / life / mental health / photography / poem / poems / poetry / reading / thoughts / writing )
Just caught the tail end of a piece on radio talking about Virginia Woolf’s essay on illness, which I had never heard of before and thought you would be interested: Your poem is very moving!
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Thank you, Andrew!😊
My apologies for the long-delayed response to your comment,
which had lain neglected in the “spam”.
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Sad but very true.
Maybe loss and pain are an uncouth wake up call that up that snaps us out of the illusion that so many of our species are under the influence of. But we can wander most of our lives in a prolonged state of shock after that, never finding a real alternative to the dreams we had.But there is always hope.
I hope you can find healing from your hurt and that you discover the true love that never lets you down.
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Thank you, AB! 🌞
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Ken it’s so great to meet you on here and follow your blog. This is an incredible poem and you have immense talent. Take care
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Thank you!
I am grateful for your lovely comment. 😊
(Apologies for the delayed response, I’ve been offline, with no mobile.)
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No need to apologise Ken 😊
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Sorry! 🌝
(I’m English, so it’s really hard to stop myself, LOL!)
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Beautifully written, at first it made me laugh, by the end my eyes were moist. It looks to me Ken, you have a lot of friends now here through your beautiful and inspiring work 🙂 keep writing.
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Thank you, Tone! 😊
I’m glad you found it evocative.
The piece seems to have resonated with quite a few people.
(In fact, this has turned out to be my most popular post, ever.)
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I loved the poem, the photos and especially reading through your comments. I smiled several times and was taken down memory lane your writing and images. Thank you.
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Thank you, Samantha!
I’m glad you enjoyed my work.😊
(WordPress hid your comment in the spam, so I only just found it.)
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Spam Sam now? Cheeky wordpress! I’m glad you check your spam!
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The computer does it so often that I check there most days, now.
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Wonderful photographs and words. I can relate to much of what you say. I often feel more alone on birthdays and Christmases. It’s refreshing to find this blog.
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Thanks, Nikita!🌞
I’m pleased you liked my work; but sorry to learn of your aloneness.
I hope you will visit again.🙏
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Hi Ken, most of the time I quite enjoy my aloneness as it inspires my creativity but Birthdays and Christmas time it tends to get me down as there is a social pressure to be jolly and an emphasis on family which is tough when you don’t have one anymore. Are you involved with the Disability Arts Movement at all? There’s a group on Facebook which is full of interesting creative people who live with isolation due to various reasons. Take care.
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Yes, I agree, Nikita:
isolation often feels more painful on days associated with human connection.
I had not heard of the Disability Arts Movement.
(Also, I have never actually been on Facebook.)
Thank you for the information.🌞
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I only started to participate on Facebook recently when the Pandemic began and in some ways it’s useful in forming connections. There may be a local disability arts group near you and there is a good national website you will find through Google. Wishing you well. 🌈
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Tears didn’t roll but came to moist and disturb my sight, blurred. Long time the phone no longer rings, and when you dial that number it has no one 🙂 Only, if ..and then no. That is life, a bit sore I guess eh.
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Thanks, Kalabalu!🌝
I’m glad if you found it moving.
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Really beautifully written you have very perceptive thinking.
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Thank you, very much, Divyen!🌞
Please accept my APOLOGY for this long-delayed reply, to your kind words.🙏
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I really enjoyed reading this poem, especially the last two lines. Reminds me of The Smiths. Thank you for sharing this. I’m inspired.
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Thank you, Cat!🌞
I’m glad you enjoyed it.
(Sorry for the delayed reply: WordPress hid your comment in the spam.😯)
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Your post is very moving. Thanks for sharing.
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Thank you, Lawrence!😊
I’m glad you found it evocative.
(WordPress had put your comment in the spam: don’t know why it keeps doing that.🙃)
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Love the old photos. For me those years are like another life. Thank you for sharing.
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Thank you, Bill!😊
I hope you will visit again.
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Those photos capture the spirit of the words, and vice versa. Lovely piece. Emotional and urgent. I may have to copy you and dig out a few of mine.
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How lovely to hear from you, Linda!😊
I’m glad you think it works, because the piece actually started as prose, but gradually morphed during editing.
I wanted to somehow use the last photo, which had gone unseen for so long.
And yes: It would be nice to see more childhood pictures of YOU, as well!
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There is something very nostalgic about the second to last photo. Don’t lose hope! Even if life is harsh to you, you have all of us here to share your talented words with.
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Thank you, Tomas! 😊
(Aciu! laba diena!)
(Sorry for the delayed response: WordPress hid your comment in “spam”, so I just found it.)
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😮 Laba diena to you too! 😊
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Wow good one
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Thank you, Nida! 😊
(WordPress hid your comment in the “spam”, so I have just found it.)
Hope you’ll visit again.🙏
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Beautiful photos…Life deviations
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Thank you, Athira! 😊
It was fortunate, for me, that my Uncle enjoyed photography,
otherwise I might have forgotten all about those days.
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Most welcome…Keep going👍🏻
Love what you do, do what you love
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I hope happiness finds its way back to you again. I think this piece speaks to so many of us. I pray you find solace in your fellow writers and fans of your writing.
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Thank you for the kind thoughts, Clary!😊
Yes: this post has turned out to be surprisingly popular.
(Sorry for my delayed response: I’ve been out of action with a virus, since your comment arrived.)
Hope you will visit again.🙏
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No worries
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Beautiful poetry! The later generations will study social history of our times through our blogs 🙂 Every blog is a human story, a human history, fit for anthropologists to study. Be well.
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Thank you, Maria! 😊
I’m glad you like it.
That’s an interesting idea about studying history via blogs.
Though I wonder how long they will all remain online,
and how investigators might choose among the vast number of sites.🤔
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Full of depth and meaning. Beautifully and artfully expressed.
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Thank you for your very kind comment, LaDonna!🌞
It was a pleasant surprise, for me, finding this post seems to resonate with many readers.
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This is beautiful ken!!
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Thank you, Lipsa!😊
I’m glad you enjoyed it.
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Happy Belated Birthday!
Yes, I love your picks and memories~! 💖
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Thanks, Cindy!🌝
This post has been my most popular one of all.
I was pleasantly surprised: that it seemed to strike a chord with many people.
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You’re so welcome!
Kudos to you!
Yes, it surprises me sometimes what strikes a chord and what doesn’t.
Nice feeling!
♥️
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I love your beautiful poem. Your poem and pictures artfully express such a strong emotion.
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Thank you! 😊
I’m glad you liked the piece.
It started out as prose, but morphed as I edited.
(Just now discovered your comment: which WordPress had hidden in the “spam”.)
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Thanks for the photographic journey so well aligned to the emotions of the piece
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Thank you, Dee! 🌞
I’m glad you liked it.
(Sorry for this delayed response: WordPress hid your comments in the “spam”.)
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No worries. Good to hear from you. Cheers
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This made me cry… I can really feel the heart behind the words, the images… And in a way.. I can really relate.. Loneliness has been a more stable companion than anyone else I know on this planet. I, too, have spent many birthdays alone. Even the ones that I wasn’t, I felt so very alone. Thank you for sharing your heart. I hope you find genuine connections in this world in spite of the limitations of your health challenges. 🌷
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Thank you for this appreciative and heartfelt comment!😊
(Though I was sorry to hear of your own loneliness.)
Please accept my apologies for the delayed reply. 🙏
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No worries at all:) I fully understand that life and health issues can get in the way… I hope things have been well for you and keep on enjoying your writing and expressions. ✨😊
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Love those cute photos dear Ken ❤
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Thank you Neelam!🌝
My Uncle left me all his photo’s when he died.
So I thought of putting some into a birthday post.
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You’re welcome Ken. Those photos reveal the joy and innocence of the childhood.
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